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#1 MrWest

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 02:30 PM

Single/Not Married:

What are the reasons for them being in that situation ?...

Are Black Men to Blame ? or Should Black Women in general take full responsibility as to Why they are single and un-married ?...

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 03:01 PM

Single/Not Married:

What are the reasons for them being in that situation ?...

Are Black Men to Blame ? or Should Black Women in general take full responsibility as to Why they are single and un-married ?...



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Posted 11 January 2010 - 03:01 PM

Single/Not Married:

What are the reasons for them being in that situation ?...

Are Black Men to Blame ? or Should Black Women in general take full responsibility as to Why they are single and un-married ?...


hate to dig up corpses, but this sounds like a "spooky" question...

designed to sit back, smile and watch the verbal bricks fly.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 03:37 PM

This topic is better suited for Okayplayer, which I just came from. The only people who can tell you why black women are in this situation are black women. There's literally one black women on here.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 06:24 PM

I know a few Black women...some single, some married (including my wife). There's a variety of reasons the single ones are single.

- one is single because she chooses to get with guys that are bad for her (ie: married men, thugs, etc) because she has unresolved "daddy issues"
- one is single because she was married for a while and got divorced (she has one kid)
- one is single because she has standards that are so high that no reasonable man can meet them
- one is single because she's a bitch

I assume these are the same reasons for a lot of White girls being single too.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 06:48 PM

This topic is better suited for Okayplayer, which I just came from. The only people who can tell you why black women are in this situation are black women. There's literally one black women on here.


They need to changed the code for that fucking site, not user friendly at all.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 06:55 PM

haha this was one of the topics on Michael Baisden today! You work for him?

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 06:56 PM

lol

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 07:01 PM

the math from the Michael Baisden show was basically there are ten black women to every 7-8 black men. Of those 7-8 black men only about 3-4 are college educated and in a social class that can support a family. (remember this is what the show said, I didn't make this up. Also these aren't the exact numbers, just close to what I heard on the radio earlier today.) Then, on top of all that, how many of those 4 eligible black men are with white women. What I don't understand though is why there is more taboo for a black woman to date a man of another race than there is for a black man to date a woman of another race.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 07:20 PM

This is just a ticking time bomb waiting to asplode

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 07:24 PM

Remember-- I am just roughly quoting a nationally syndicated radio show.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 08:46 PM

What I don't understand though is why there is more taboo for a black woman to date a man of another race than there is for a black man to date a woman of another race.

Haha my mom loves Micheal Baisden she listens to him every morning. He does have interesting topics

You bring up a good point, Zilla. I think society has accepted the vast number of black men dating out their race. The only opponents are generally black women. That's not to say that black women who date out their race don't have their critics usually women and some men. Maybe black men and white women have become the norm. Just like alot of white men date Asian women.

At the same time black women complain about black men as well so....... I tend to ignore i and not feed into it. It's a bunch of people complaining to complain.

I personally don't care what other people do maybe because I grew up in a multi-cultural background.


Wow!! Subbass right on point. High standards=rich

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 08:50 PM

I love Michael Baisden's show. Fridays are my favorite because its when he plays the most funk. What other syndicated radio show will randomly go from a boogie funk set to Chicago house. Also I like that he supports upcoming unknowns if he likes them.

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 09:45 PM

Black man, black woman, black baby
White man, white woman, white baby
White man, black woman, black baby
Black man, white woman, black baby

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 11:36 PM

can we see that in the form of a punnett square

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 11:59 PM



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Posted 12 January 2010 - 12:31 AM

hate to dig up corpses, but this sounds like a "spooky" question...

designed to sit back, smile and watch the verbal bricks fly.

:lol:


or Soul Rock :blink:

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Posted 12 January 2010 - 01:05 AM

hey i usually will say some funny b.s or not so funny b.s and be on my way but....... this is a real topic being a black man who has been all over the free world an seen his fair share i think that the stress put on blacks to date within there race still is greater then that of most other races even so call open minded black folk give funny look and speak under the table about dewanna and cody or tyrone and becky not to sound name haterish lol but with that being said black women want something they will never find a perfect man, money, class, education, fit with a big well we know the myth they all can be 12 to 14. but this ideal comes from black women not having a realistic role model to base there selection on when picking a mate. so they do what all black folk do because we lack a foot hold in the past . refer to pop culture and thats what feeds convos like this one. not that black women want to much but in the dose they want those things in are unreal. there for they go for the strongest magnet money be it with dope dealing whoop my ass boy hubfriend or what ever you call`em baby daddy. and the real gets lost again it`s not that there are not enough men its what the world has done to them. music movie and other things like small minded and ignorant ways of thinking being a pimp is cool or i`ll live forever i got 12 boys, no what lives forever is the wisdom you give them and if your not there then you`re dead to them anyway. but this picture of black men has black women worried confused and running. all the self hate black men have and had was left to bubble and it has spilled over. to wrap this up we can`t do better till we get better. i love all races there is not one person that i`ll will hate 1st and ask question later but black women are doing that because they`re getting used at both ends. peace sorry im a little stoned right now. :lol:

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Posted 12 January 2010 - 06:08 AM

Wall of text makes SubBass sad. :lol:

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Posted 12 January 2010 - 06:16 AM

BTW - I'm White (well, mixed, but I look White to anyone who doesn't know), and my wife is Black. When we first started dating, we used to notice dirty looks from both side of the aisle if ya know what I mean. Some of the nastiest ones came from older Black folks. What mattered though was that we didn't give a shit what anyone else thought. It is really no one's business but our own.

Fast-forward a few years and we hardly notice that stuff any more. Maybe it happens less, or maybe we just got used to it to the point where we tune it out. There are still (and always will be) places that we're not welcome to live, but oh well...small price to pay to be with the right woman.

Oh...and jeebus_unit...here's our daughter. Pretty hard to pin her down as "Black" I would think. We like to joke that she's going to be a "stealth" Black girl...lol

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Posted 12 January 2010 - 06:41 AM

can we see that in the form of a punnett square


:lol: nyuk!

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Posted 12 January 2010 - 07:35 AM

You think this is rough try marrying a ginger. You should see the looks I get.

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Posted 12 January 2010 - 07:40 AM

- one is single because she's a bitch


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Posted 13 January 2010 - 11:54 AM

SubBASS your daughters eyes are rediculous.

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Posted 13 January 2010 - 01:01 PM

Yeah...it's gonna SUCK when she gets towards dating age...I gotta get a shotgun...

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Posted 13 January 2010 - 01:25 PM

Yeah...it's gonna SUCK when she gets towards dating age...I gotta get a shotgun...


i was just gonna say that.

hopefully it goes something like this...



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Posted 14 January 2010 - 10:52 PM

i got it black women are single because they nag 50% of the time about what you do wrong do the same thing and expect you to love them and there spunk trust me i like Dr. Phil when it comes to this peace ;)

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Posted 16 January 2010 - 12:00 PM


she's a state court judge, and a nfl cheerleader? i'm not black and i'm not in atl, but sign me up...

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Posted 16 January 2010 - 07:08 PM

OT, but welcome back to STMB SubBass!

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Posted 16 January 2010 - 08:27 PM

Haha...thanks..I've been lurking a bit. Hard to find time for anything with the little one runnin' around. She's the size (and has the temper) of a 2 year old, and she's just barely past 1 year old. Let's just say that even when I try to set aside time for things like internet or beatmaking, it usually doesn't work out (like the battle #150).




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